🏠IRL sessions (In Real Life): $200 per session
- This is an adult, consensual Femdom experience between the agreed participants.
- My partner Sara Mays will be present solely for safety/consent support and will not participate in the session.
- Mistress will be fully clothed at all times. No nudity on my part. No sexual touching.
Session conduct (non-sexual, consent-based)
- Participants may bring and use their own sex toys only on themselves, based on what has been agreed in advance. I will not touch any of the participant’s toys and will not handle them.
- I may use a crop/flogger for consensual light whipping on the body area agreed in advance. No lasting marks, no cuts, and no harmful play.
- Consent is ongoing. Participants may stop the session at any time using the agreed safeword/stop signal. I may also stop at any time if I’m not comfortable or if the vibe isn’t right. Stopping will not result in consequences.
Location & fees
- Sessions take place at Aquarius Bath. Any required venue fees for me and my partner must be covered by the participant.
Important notes
- I am not an escort and I do not provide sexual services.
- This is fantasy roleplay in a safe, consensual manner.
- If I decline a request, I will not discuss it further for that session.
Confidentiality & recording
- I keep sessions strictly confidential. I do not record sessions and I do not distribute content.
Gifts
- Mistress loves to be spoiled with gifts by participants (optional). If you wish to tip, please use the “Tip-me” button on my website at CriesOfTheGoth.com.
Important Information: (Ongoing Consent & Safety)
These in-person Dom/sub sessions are built on clear, specific, and ongoing consent between both parties. Consent is not blanket and it remains valid only for the exact acts being done at that moment. The session and any specific activity can be stopped at any time using the agreed safeword/stop signal, and the limit you set will be respected immediately—even within the context of previously agreed boundaries.
There is no bodily harm. If either party shows signs of discomfort, distress, or lack of enjoyment, the activity must stop. For the session to continue, both the Mistress and the participant must feel safe, comfortable, and willing to continue the present act.
To keep consent meaningful, both parties must be fully sober, well-rested, coherent, and able to communicate clearly. A person must have an active, informed mind during the specific activity in order to properly consent.
Mutual Communication
Consent includes agreement on boundaries, needs, comfort, and the right to stop the session or a specific act without consequences. The goal of Dom/sub dynamics is for both parties to have genuine enjoyment and to feel safe throughout.
Educates / Expectations
- Arrive freshly showered (freshness and cleanliness are expected on arrival).
- Arrive with fresh breath.
- Respect my limits. If my limits are not respected, the session will end immediately. No sexual contact is provided and no escorting occurs.
- Arrive on time. If you’ll be early or late, message or call me.
- If you do not show up, you may be blacklisted and refunds will not be provided.
Consent Reminder (Crucial)
Both parties must agree to the activities, and consent must be clear and ongoing. Clear communication and mutual agreement are essential for a safe, enjoyable experience.
Information, what I do and my hard limits
Virtual Sessions (Video Platforms)
Note: I will refer to you as Participant / sisi / sub. Outside of sisi/sub dynamics, I also cater to people (Participant) who want to discuss and agree on specific agreed fantasies and roleplay.
I am a Mistress/Dominatrix focused on consensual BDSM roleplay. I offer both virtual and in-person sessions, and the rules for each format are different—please read carefully before booking.
If the session type matches what you’re seeking, choose the option available and submit the tribute/payment in advance to confirm the session.
Communication / Platforms
For virtual sessions, I use Telegram@MistressKissra. I will not coordinate sexual or explicit content on platforms other than the one agreed for the session. (If you contact me on a different platform, I may direct you back to the agreed channel.)
Virtual Sessions include agreed roleplay and Fetish/Power-Exchange dynamics only within my limits.
Virtual Session Conduct (Limits & Consent)
All limits are respected. Participants/sisi/sub must inform Mistress of their boundaries before and during the session.
This is consensual roleplay and not intended to cause injury. Safe practices are required, including no activities that result in permanent markings, serious injury, or unsafe physical harm.
During play, the participant will have a safeword/stop signal of their choosing. Consent is ongoing throughout the session, and the participant may stop or pause any activity at any time. If the safeword/stop signal is used, all relevant activity stops immediately. Mistress may also stop the session if anything feels unsafe or uncomfortable to either party.
Virtual Sessions — Limits & Safety:
All limits will be respected. The participant (Participant / sub / sisi) must inform Mistress of their boundaries before and during the session.
This is consensual roleplay and is not intended to cause injury. Safe practices are required, including no activities that result in permanent markings, serious injury, or unsafe physical harm.
During the session, the participant will be given an agreed safeword/stop signal for the duration of the play. Consent is ongoing, and using the safeword/stop signal ends the relevant activity immediately.
IRL sessions (In Real Life):
Mistress is NOT an escort, do not expect any form of sexual contact, or nudity on the part of Mistress. This is strictly Femdom. I will be dressed in fetish attire.
Tasks: sisi/sub who tributed for a good amount of sessions (Mistress will determine the number) and are interested in receiving tasks to please, I can accommodate the following:
- sisi/sub will upload pix as instructed by Mistress on FetLife profile: Only with the participant’s own consent and posting choices. I will not request or authorize anything non-consensual or illegal.
- Optional, self-worn chastity/butt-plug play for short, safe errands only when it is comfortable and does not create pain or safety risk (no driving if you can’t safely move/adjust).
- Optional chastity for agreed durations. Participant remains responsible for hygiene/comfort and may request stop or removal immediately.
Note, if you wish to act out fetishes that require props, you must purchase them from Amazon (trusted site), after we agree on the items which will be used for sessions; this mainly includes clothing, footwear, hosiery and dolls to emulate face sitting. Now, if you wish to suggest something new, feel free to do so but, it must be within the limits of what Mistress does. sisi/sub will send the total amount tax included to Mistress PayPal and I will purchase the items agreed on, I can send a screen capture of the total cost. (keep in mind I can only use Amazon-Canada)
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Mistress hard limits: (few minor exceptions):
- Nothing illegal.
- No intoxication. I will not proceed if either party is impaired and cannot clearly consent.
- No smoking: if you smoke, that is your thing. I do not smoke, not even as a fetish.
- No gas masks.
- No breath play or choking.
- No blackmail.
- No needles.
- No age play.
- No beastiality or any animal envolvement in anyway. Basically no animals period!
- ABSOLUTELY NOTHING involving minors or reference not even roleplay.
- No permanent markings. No bleeding.
- No knife play.
- No Scat: I will not sell you dirty panties, I will not shit in a toilet or on a plate for you or anything like that, so do not ask.
- No breath play or choking.
- No race play.
- ADBL (Adult Baby Diaper Lover).
- Blood.
- Vomit.
Food fetish: If you want to watch Mistress eat food that is fine, I do not throw food on Participant/sisi/sub.